I got this from a friend of mine and thought it was so wonderful.
Her sons are in elementary school and last December the one boy’s teacher came up with this amazing idea. This is “The Ugly Gift”.
Have each student go home and find an ugly gift. This could be the one sock that lost it’s match, a banana peel, a super short pencil, a half used eraser, a candy wrapper, anything. The students are not allowed to spend any money on this gift and have to wrap it using something at their house (aluminum, news paper, old wrapping paper, plastic bags, etc). The goal is to make this gift something that you might not want to get handed to you over the holidays.
The students bring the gifts in and then they are randomly distributed. No one gets their own gift. Then comes the big reveal, everyone gets to open their present. There will probably be a lot of “ew”, “what?”, “huh?”, “gross”, and other exclamations from your students. My recommendation would be to have everyone open their gifts all at once to just make it one moment.
Then the students must analyze their gift. We automatically will look at these presents and think about how disappointed we are that we didn’t get something “good”. We won’t like this gift and will want to give it back. However, it was given to us. We should find the positive in this gift. Here come’s the educational part.
The students will have to find something special about their gift. It will be something nice about the object. The will write a thank you note for the gift.
For example:
Thank you for my single sock. It has so many uses. I can make a sock puppet, I can hide secret objects in it, or I can use it if I ever lose one sock. This gift is special and unique.
All the students will write their note and can read it to the rest of the class and share their object. This takes the ugly object and make it into a lovely present. It shows the students that they can be thankful and happy with anything and also how to be grateful.
Put your own spin on it and allow your students to experience this cool lesson.
Happy Holidays everyone!